- Compliment three people every day.
- Remember other people's birthdays.
- Overtip breakfast waitresses.
- Life is short. Eat more pancakes and fewer rice cakes.
- Learn to make great chili.
- Drive inexpensive cars, but own the best house you can afford.
- Be forgiving of yourself and others.
- Ask for a raise when you feel you've earned it.
- Teach some kind of class; be a student in some kind of class.
- Plant a tree on your birthday.
- Donate two pints of blood every year.
- Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
- Don't postpone joy.
- Write thank-you notes promptly.
- Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen every day.
- Don't waste time learning the "tricks of the trade." Instead, learn the trade.
- Buy vegetables from truck farmers who advertise with handlettered signs.
- Surprise loved ones with little unexpected gifts.
- Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
- Never mention being on a diet.
- Admit your mistakes.
- Use your wit to amuse, not abuse.
- Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
- Demand excellence and be willing to pay for it.
- Give to charity all the clothes you haven't worn during the past three years.
- Never hire someone you wouldn't invite home to dinner.
- Choose a charity in your community and support it generously with your time and money.
- Never give up on what you really want to do. The person with the big dreams is more powerful than one with all the facts.
- Don't take good health for granted.
- Forget the Joneses.
- When you want to teach a lesson, tell a story.
- Refill ice cube trays.
- Never invest more in the stock market than you can afford to lose.
- Make it a habit to do nice things for people who'll never find out.
- Always have something beautiful in sight, even if it's just a daisy in a jelly glass.
- Think big thoughts, but relish small pleasures.
- Lend only those books you never care to see again.
- Never start a business with someone who has more troubles than you.
- Learn how to read a financial report.
- Use credit cards only for convenience, never for credit.
- Take a brisk thirty-minute walk every day.
- Learn to identify local wildflowers, birds, and trees.
- Keep a fire extinguisher in your kitchen and car.
- Don't buy expensive wine, luggage, or watches.
- Learn to listen. Opportunity sometimes knocks very softly.
- Wear audacious underwear under the most solemn business attire.
- Never deprive someone of hope, it might be all they have.
- When people are relating important events that happened to them, don't try to top them with a story of your own. Let them have the stage.
- When starting out, don't worry about not having enough money. Limited funds are a blessing, not a curse. Nothing encourages creative thinking in quite the same way.
- Don't buy cheap tools.
- Keep a flashlight and extra batteries under the bed and in the glove box of your car.
- Skip one meal a week and give what you would have spent to a homeless person.
- Get acquainted with a good lawyer, accountant, and plumber.
- Talk slow but think quick.
- Strive for excellence, not perfection.
- Avoid negative people.
- Don't waste time responding to your critics.
- Be original.
- Never take action when you're angry.
- Read carefully anything that requires your signature. Remember, the big print giveth and the small print taketh away.
- Give people a second chance, but not a third.
- When you're proud of your children, let them know it.
- Be your wife's best friend.
- Do battle against prejudice and discrimination wherever you find it.
- Wear out, don't rust out.
- A person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
- Never criticize the person who signs your paycheck. If you are unhappy with your job, find another one.
- Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
- Determine the quality of a neighborhood by the manners of the people living there.
- Look for ways to make your boss look good.
- Show respect for all living things.
- Choose work that is in harmony with your values.
- Give your best to your employer. It's one of the best investments you can make.
- Commit yourself to constant self-improvement.
- When complimented, a sincere "thank you" is the only response required.
- Spend less time worrying who's right and more time deciding what's right.
- Praise in public; criticize in private.
- Don't major in minor things.
- Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
- Never tell anyone they look tired or depressed.
- Never pay for work before it's completed.
- Keep a daily journal.
- Teach your children the value of money and the importance of saving.
- Remember the three R's: respect for self, respect for others; responsibility for all your actions.
- Respect tradition.
- Never cut what can be untied.
- Hire people smarter than you.
- Never ask a lawyer or accountant for business advice. They are trained to find problems, not solutions.
- Take family vacations whether you can afford them or not. The memories will be priceless.
- When meeting people for the first time, resist asking what they do for a living. Enjoy their company without attaching any labels.
- Every day show your family how much you love them with your words, with your touch, and with your thoughtfulness.
- Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
- Leave everything a little better than you found it.
- Arrive at work early and stay beyond quitting time.
- When facing a difficult task, act as though it is impossible to fail. If you're going after Moby Dick, take along the tartar sauce.
- Fill your gas tank when it falls below one-quarter full.
- Don't expect money to bring you happiness.
- Remember that overnight success usually takes about fifteen years.
- When paying cash, ask for a discount.
- Never underestimate your power to change yourself. Never underestimate your power to change others.
- Practice empathy. Try to see things from other people's point of view.
- Discipline yourself to save money. It's essential to success.
- Get and stay in shape.
- Find some other way of proving your manhood than by shooting defenseless animals and birds.
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Notes & Quotes: Life's Little Instruction Book by H. Jackson Brown
The following are my favorites from H. Jackson Brown's Life's Little Instruction Book: Simple Wisdom and a Little Humor for Living a Happy and Rewarding Life.